It Comes in Waves
Years after her cousin was killed, Lilly Dancyger is haunted by images of murdered women in the news.
"A rich, nuanced exploration of women’s anger from a diverse group of writers," forthcoming from Seal Press: October 8, 2019.
Lilly Dancyger is a contributing editor, writing instructor, and columnist at Catapult, and an assistant editor at Barrelhouse Books. Her essays and journalism on sex, politics, and culture have appeared in Rolling Stone, The Rumpus, the Washington Post, Psychology Today, and more. She's the editor of Burn It Down, an anthology of essays on women's anger, forthcoming from Seal Press. Lilly is also at work on a memoir about her father's art and heroin addiction, and the legacy of both in her life. Follow her on Twitter at @lillydancyger
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